Catholic and Masturbation

Posted by Chirantha on March 3, 2007, 1 p.m.

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After some events with a person on MSN who didn't masturbate due personal and religious reasons I read up on the catholic and masturbation. It seems that the catholic religion indeed says it’s wrong to masturbate (http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/2964/masturbation2.html). However I feel that statement does not match the current time or the people.

Teenagers going through puberty have the wet dreams (but some many not have a single one at all and still be perfectly ok). Some may get these wet dreams until they die but most of the time they stop at around 17-18. This is because the body starts to control itself and stop producing sperm. Even though most religious people may consider masturbation as a *bad* act. However it seems that not masturbating is a bad act because it could lead to one destroying himself. I do not believe any religion says that a person should knowingly destroy them self’s.

According to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_sexual_denial (under Long term denial) it seems modern science has proven that it is a good act and gives protection to things such as prostate cancer. I believe cancer did not exist at the time the rules of the catholic religion was made. (God has given us a brain to think use it! Don’t let God tell you what is wrong and right)

If the argument is pleasuring yourself is selfish look through your past. You could have given that tasty food plate to a hungry beggar. You could have given all your money to poor people and become a beggar but what will happen to your children? In this modern world things don't come for free. We save money for a reason. And just like that people masturbate for a reason(s) such as pleasure and protection from cancer and other prostate related problems. People like to eat testy food because it feels good to eat tasty food and people masturbate because it feels good and protects there body.

Some rules of the catholic religion is far out of date in my point of view. I know a family that got divorced because the guy couldn't have sex (a sexual dysfunction from birth), the guy didn't know it until he attempted it. If he wasn't so religious and checked if he can do it he could have explained to the girl that he can't do it and she probably wouldn't have married him. At the end the girl lost her virginity and had trouble finding another man because of our countries cultural issues.

I do believe no religion would say it’s correct to destroy a girls dream to have kids. We live to full fill our desires actually that’s all we do in life. If there was no desire in a person he would have to die.

I remember that somewhere in the bible it Jesus said to a guy "give all your belongings to the people and join me" even though it was said, no one with the right mind could do that today because there aren’t many jungles or free food to eat. If a guy gave up everything he had and joined the church he would be living off the donations and the money of other people. While he may say god gives me food to eat it is you who many be donating and feeding him. The Fathers enjoy life because they have everything they want because other people are giving the church money and all he has to do is conduct the masses -> helping some people learn religion -> eating -> sleeping. But he is a person that can use his arms and legs to earn and give money to others. Come to think of it being a father is way too much fun lol.

Comments

Maxcore 18 years, 11 months ago

and firestormx, I have hooked up with many girls in my day, and all of them have been able to orgasm. Now you can say "they were faking it" but thats unlikely considering I tell all of them this joke: "Why do girls fake orgasms?" "Because they think men care."

Maxcore 18 years, 11 months ago

Also it is not an addiction. Even if it was, is smoking cigarettes a sin? What is an addiction anyway? Something you do all the time habitually with adverse effects if its presence is somehow absent? I eat breakfast everyday, and I often get cranky when I do not eat it, does that mean eating breakfast is a sin?

Maxcore 18 years, 11 months ago

NOTE TO EVERYONE: CITE YOUR FUCKING SOURCES

Chirantha 18 years, 11 months ago

firestormx, in my country losing virginity means men won't marry a girl (they will be considered as a durty woman). And exactly! Just like people need anti-depressents when depressed, when people get an urge to have sex they will have to have sex or masturbate, Sadly these urges come at the age of 13-19. Which means you can't marry unless you have underaged sex. The good option is to masturbate but the religion says its bad but ofcourse you can go without it and possiblily ruin a girls life.

Chirantha 18 years, 11 months ago

I was not abused lol. I was playing and found out how good it felt being a person in constent pain I guess my body got use to it. Well Rhys got mad at me because he says I'm lying now. I did lie about saying I don't masturbate :-|.. he blocked me from MSN which is a decision a moron would take considering the type of subject.

RhysAndrews 18 years, 11 months ago

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Lets say this simple.

I or anyone that does have a working reproductive system that isn't used to wet dreams can NOT stay without masturbation and sex. :-/ I am sure others can't as well. They may just say I don't but they do but they keep it secret. Which shows how needed it is.
Like I said, I know people older than me who have sworn upon never masturbating. It's kind of like a drug. The more you do it the more you want to do it, and if you never started, you have no desire to start.

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Also, none of you are biologists, so don't pretend to show some level of understanding on things you can't even being to understand.
Are you a biologist? No? Then why did you say:
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Also it is not an addiction. Even if it was, is smoking cigarettes a sin? What is an addiction anyway? Something you do all the time habitually with adverse effects if its presence is somehow absent? I eat breakfast everyday, and I often get cranky when I do not eat it, does that mean eating breakfast is a sin?
We're all open to our opinion, whether it's based on any good evidence or not. The evidence just strengthens and weakens our opinion, it doesn't change it. Where did we say that not being able to go without breakfast is a sin? Masturbation isn't a sin because of it's ability to get us addicted. It's a sin because it's abusing the gift of Sex that God has given us.

-Rhys

Grand-High Gamer 18 years, 11 months ago

–This is because the body starts to control itself and stop producing sperm.

That is bull, it gets absorbed back into your body if you have an exsessive amount, and you don't actually have any physical reason to have wet-dreams.

raketooy 18 years, 11 months ago

In which country do you live, Chirantha?

areus 18 years, 11 months ago

I wrap my rascal two times as punishment for super models.

shawn 18 years, 11 months ago

Wow. People will have opinions. It's easy to say that, because most of the time, it's easier to let the idiot live stupidly and you live happily then both of you fighting over something unimportant like masturbation.